If you decide to marry this man, you both will find a way to be happy and have a wonderful marriage, not that perfect that we see in the Sundays at Church. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out. I'm a nevermo, but I married a then TBM girl, so maybe my perspective will be of help to you. The church will be in your bedroom, finances, and all your decisions. Do know that dating an MD, there will be plenty of unexpected changes when you two have plans, and you will need to have strength and be able to entertain yourself at times. Know there are a lot of Doctors who cheat though. How am I certain. LDS theology heavily promotes the idea that marriage and family are an important source of happiness in this life, not just the next.
And you are right about people telling you that you are lucky that you married a doctor and should not complain. Follow the footnotes and you start to find the lies. Although it may indeed be a good idea to get out of this one, we all need to keep in mind that the situation is more complex than that. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring.
I think it was Spencer Kimball who counselled that before marriage you should keep your eyes wide open and then after marriage keep your eyes half shut. Lately we haven't been talking much as he doesn't want the "scrap time" that I have left over, but instead wants quality time. Interfaith marriage is but one variety of the learning experience. If I knew any better going into this relationship I would have stopped. Mormons defintely play by a different rule set. Btw, you bringing up CES letter shit before thanksgiving will guarantee a very awkward time with the GF and probably the family for the day. There are other ways. We are trying to conceive now, and I am contemplating if this was the right path for me. They know that they are the best.
But there are a lot of women who post here who have flipped from TBM to apostate. However, I believe there are rules set, and we receive certain blessings when we obey said rules. The first time, the shrink said, "It is very common for a woman to divorce so their children WILL see their father more. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. To Anonymous, Your comment also left me heartbroken. As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. Instead, I found someone outside the cult and we've been married almost 32 years She's looking for a dedicated priesthood holder who will take her to the temple.